Labour. It is hard work. But somehow we push through, knowing that we may birth something glorious if we can just fight past the pain. One side calls to us to take a break, to leave the source of fear and hurt, the other side asks us to bear down and seize the moment. Who do we listen to? Lately I have been listening to the side that asks me to run and hide. I envelope myself in the arms of safety, of temporary freedom. But today I chose to push through and I feel so strong for it.
What have you done recently to make it through a tough challenge?
I used loving detachment when I encountered an emotional abuser. Not taking his behavior personally, also helped. Thirdly, I connected with my network of friends who love me unconditionally. Their support made the difficult time manageable.
ReplyDeleteGreat work Pablo. Using the resources of loved ones to help us through a tough spot is a way to come out stronger and also to strengthen relationships!
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